Be the Boss You Would Work For
Published on March 15, 2025

The Hidden Contributions of Your Boss
Your boss does more than simply "profit" off your labor. Much of what they provide goes unnoticed and unappreciated—things like infrastructure, from office space and desks to phones and established networks, are often taken for granted. Even something as basic as consistently paying salaries and providing benefits tends to be overlooked or undervalued by employees, though it is a crucial and sometimes stressful responsibility.
Invisible Yet Essential Leadership
Leadership is perhaps the most critical, yet least visible contribution. A good boss offers vision, drive, discipline, focus, and the ability to manage risks. Collectively, these can be summed up as "thinking like an owner"—a perspective genuinely available only to those who bear ultimate responsibility. Employees can attempt to emulate this mindset, but the weight and implications of true ownership are unique to those who actually own the stakes.
Capitalizing on Employees vs. Exploiting Them
Every boss intends, at some level, to capitalize on the work done by employees—this is the essence of business. However, there is a spectrum of acceptability here. It's crucial to recognize when a boss might be crossing the line from reasonable profit-making to outright exploitation. If you feel your contributions are disproportionately benefiting your boss without appropriate reciprocation in terms of infrastructure, leadership, or support, then you might have legitimate cause for concern.
Do You Really Understand the Financial Reality?
Many employees underestimate or overlook the hidden costs and responsibilities associated with business ownership. Taxes, licensing fees, unexpected expenses, insurance, and many other costs are often invisible to employees. Good bosses intentionally shield employees from these complexities, much like parents refrain from burdening their children with financial anxieties. This isn’t a bug—it's a feature. Such shielding helps create a stable, productive working environment.
Self-Reflection: Would You Work for Yourself?
The ultimate litmus test for any manager or aspiring entrepreneur is to reflect deeply on this question: "Are you the kind of boss you would genuinely want to work for?" Think carefully about your answer. Do you provide clarity, support, and stability? Are you fair, transparent, and respectful?
Becoming the boss you would want to work for means developing empathy, understanding financial realities, providing stable leadership, and respecting the value and dignity of your team. Achieve this, and you'll not only find professional success but also earn lasting respect and loyalty from your employees.